I got my nem about 7 months ago. I got it cuz my clowns had hosted it & I got a killer deal on them. As soon as I got them together in the tank the clowns didn.t want anything to do with the nem. Saturday evening I start blasting the nem with the powerhead cuz I wanted to get it out of my tank. As soon as them started flapping in the current my female clown started hosting it. Now she can't get the male to host it. But it's funny how just all of a sudden they say hey theres a good nem let's live there. They have hosted a candycane coral up to this point. Well he still is.