Ok, after doing some research, I'm pretty positive that low potassium is my problem. There's really not much information out there, but I found some really helpful people.
Thanks to everyone at the local aquarium stores that I've called asking about this. It seems that fauna marin makes the only potassium hobby kit that I could find. There aren't many companies that make a straight potassium supplement.
Here's a great post I found on the Zeo forums:
"A potassium leak[deficiency] is relative easy to indicate. It first starts with a fading pink on Stylophora, Pocilopora & Seriatopora, followed by weak / no growth an STN in this corals.
After this you notice weak / no growth in Montipora, especially plate forming, with fading coloration turning to brown, followed by STN.
Acropora stop growth, fading to brown, become lighter tissue with washed out coloration, followed by tissue lost (STN or RTN). Blue corals only show light blue coloration.
Corals also lose their possibility to stay in strong light, tissue get burned in corals they are placed in the highlight areas, while normally they where healthy.
This situation can be caused by different things, for example heavy stocked tanks (lots of consumers), a leak of this element in the used salt mix, export via strong skimmer etc.
I had exactly those problems and within a week, after dosing K-Balance the problems have gone. I use the product since 2 month and my corals come back to how they looked before. My tank is heavy stocked and strong skimmed. In the back of the tank I have a strong / wild growth of Montipora digitata which has become very huge over the years. It looks like Montipora corals consume more potassium than others.
A hobby test kit is not available, and it also looks like that most of the K-test kits available on the market (Merck) can only be used for freshwater. Hopefully a company producing hobby test kits will realize the importance of this element to measure.
While I had a massive potassium leak, I have dosed 50 ml for three days, followed by a 10 ml dosage daily for a two week period (320 gal system). Now, after everything looks fine (growth & coloration, stop of STN & RTN) I cut the dosage down to 5 ml twice weekly. I have not observed darker tissue with this dosage. A strong accumulation of potassium can be indicated by tissue lost, beginning from the tips.
I highly would recommend to adjust the dosing regiment for this product to blue coloration & a normal growth of corals. If both is OK, the dosage should be stopped for a while until the problems can be observed again.
G.Alexander"
This is exactly the problem I've been having, but never put all of the symptoms together. I have about 20 different Monti pieces, so they must be straining my system.
I currently use IO salt (which tests fine for potassium according to AdvancedAquarist studies), but I'm going to try Red Sea Coral Pro since I have some sitting around for a couple of water changes. I'm going to go try to find some potassium supplements at a health food store now too.
I HIGHLY recommend NOT dosing anything you're not testing. I'm going to simply because I'm desperate right now. I've consulted several seasoned aquarists and feel that this is my best course of action.